3 Things Introverts Need To Know About Extroverts
Here’s a short video about what an introvert needs to know about how to love an extrovert.
When an introvert and an extrovert fall in love, it can be tricky to honor the needs of both people. Feelings can hurt. The big thing that sets apart an introvert from an extrovert is that introverts recharge their energy from taking time alone and doing solitary things, and extroverts recharge by interacting and socializing with people. Last time I shared some things extroverts need to know. Now I’m talking to introverts.
How do you honor yourself and your partner when you’re an introvert?
Here are 3 things to keep in mind:
Take your alone time! When you don’t take your alone time to recharge, you may become irritable, grouchy or tired. When you take your alone time it is better for you and for your partner. It is your job to be aware of how much time you need and to take it.
Put your partner at the top of your list. When you are budgeting your social time, make sure your partner comes first. You can only expend so much social energy. You need to spend time with friends, coworkers, and extended family. Make sure your partner always comes first.
When you ask for alone time, be clear and use positive language. Tell your partner you need to recharge and that you look forward to spending time with them in a couple hours. This will help you take the time you need and it will help your partner not take it personally.
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