Online Couples & Relationship Therapy in San Francisco

Affirming online therapy throughout California for you and your unique relationship.

You're here because you want something to change.

Maybe you've been fighting about the same things for months (or years).
Maybe you're curious if your relationship structure is working for you.
Maybe you're about to get married and want to start on solid ground.
Or maybe things are actually going OK, but you want to make a good thing even better.

Wherever you are right now, there's room for you here.

Why choose us

We get that not all relationships look the same.

People and relationships don’t exist on a binary. We don't have a one-size-fits-all model we're trying to squeeze you into. Queer and straight. Monogamous and non-monogamous. Married and not married. Wherever you land on these spectrums-we work with the relationship you have right now and the one you are building toward.

Our approach is grounded in research, tailored to you.

It’s a blend of practical support and reflective space. We use the Gottman Method (backed by 40+ years of research) and Emotionally Focused Therapy (which has the highest success rate of any couples therapy method) to guide our work. But, we shape everything around your unique relationship, your values, and your goals.

We meet you wherever you are.

Whether dealing with day-to-day struggles, a big decision or deepening an already solid relationship, we're here for it. All relationships face challenges. No judgment. No sides. We know change is possible and we’re here to help you get there.

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Our Services

Couples Therapy

For partners who want to reconnect, communicate better, and move through conflict without losing themselves or each other. Our aim is to help you break out of patterns that don't serve you and build the closeness you're craving.

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Queer Couples Therapy

As a queer-owned practice, we strive to understand the nuances of LGBTQ+ relationships. We know queer relationships come with unique strengths and challenges. You deserve therapy that’s not just accepting, but affirming and celebratory

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Open, ENM, & Polyamorous Relationship Therapy

Exploring or practicing ethical non-monogamy? We provide affirming, support for navigating BIG feelings, social pressures, communication across relationships, and building agreements that actually work.

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Premarital Counseling

Getting married is exciting and it's also a huge transition. We help you build a strong foundation by addressing the topics many couples avoid (like money, sex, family) before they become issues

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Couples Intensives

Sometimes ongoing sessions just don’t work for you. Our intensive format gives you concentrated time to deepen your understanding, have a difficult conversation with support, work through stuck patterns, or make major decisions together.

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Individual Therapy

Your relationships don't exist in a vacuum. We also work with individuals to develop relational intelligence, heal from past hurts, and show up differently in the relationships that matter to you most.

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What We Help With

We’re here to help you:

Resolve the underlying issues that are driving your conflicts
Break out of negative communication patterns
Build (or rebuild) trust and emotional safety
Navigate big changes in life while remaining on the same team
Deepen intimacy and maintain desire for the long-term
Communicate wants, needs and boundaries in new ways

Our goal isn't to "fix" you or your relationship, it's to help you build the skills and understanding to handle whatever comes your way, long after therapy ends.